Condolences and Reflections for
Matt Grover, 20, Redding, CA
Firefighter I
CDF Fire, Shasta/Trinity Unit

May 11, 1983 ~ April 4, 2004

"A young Hero gone to Heaven way too soon..."

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It's crazy it's been two years since you left. I just wanted to tell you that this was a crazy snowboarding season, as far as snow. Can you believe it's April and the mountain has twelve feet of snow at the base? Every time I ride I think of the fun we all used to have together. I miss you Matt, we all do! Your friend, forever, Alicia Mendoza 04/04/06
Today is a day like any other for many people, but for some of us, it is a day that we spend constantly flooded with memories of you. April 4th will always be a day that makes my heart beat a little softer. I miss your phone calls, your funny voices, your beautiful smile and your amazing encouragement. I miss all of you so much, and I will always love you.  Always Your  Sally Jo
Dear Matt,  04/04/04 is a date forever etched in the hearts of many.  This April 4th,  I will try to remember you with joy and not tears.  You were having so much fun, the day you died.  I miss you more than ever. Your brother's and I are doing well and will be strong.  You would not want it any other way.  We love you Matthew Grover...for as long as I am living, my baby you will be!      Mom
Jancie Grover <janciegrover@sbcglobal.net>
Reddindc, ca USA - Friday, March 24, 2006 at 01:02:59 (PDT)
The Holiday's were  spent giving Thanks for all the Holiday's  we were Thankful for when you were here. Your adoring Family
Gram <Maxineatnipomo@aol.com>
USA - Thursday, December 29, 2005 at 21:25:00 (PDT)
Thanksgiving was spent giving thanks for all the Thanksgiving we were thankful for. Missing you as always. Love, Gram and family
Gram <Maxineatnipomo@aol.com>
USA - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 at 22:31:00 (PDT)
Matt we think of you all the time and miss you more with each passing day. 
Cassidy Williams Redding, CA & Katie Payne Chico, CA
Cassidy <Cassidykw@aol.com>
USA - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 at 08:46:00 (PDT)
No way do you belong there in heaven .We need and want  you here  with us. Your forever Love, Gram
Gram <Maxineatnipomo@aol.com>
USA - Wednesday, June, 2, 2005 at 23:0:00 (PDT)
Happy Birthday Matt!!!   You cross my mind daily and I keep my memories of you close to my heart.  Miss you more with each passing day.  Happy B-day!!!   Love Cassidy  
Cassidy <Cassidykw@aol.com>
USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 at 12:53:00 (PDT)
Dearest Matthew, Your Mom now lives in Lo Jolla, Andrew is following in your foot steps working for CDF summers and persuing his education . Your Dad  and Christopher are living and maintaining your home. Your beloved Sally is a single Mom to a  boy named Chase. Sally says, Matthew taught me to love and Chase has  showed me how to love again . Love, Gram 
Gram <Maxineatnipomo@aol.com>
USA - Monday, August 22, 2005 at 22:26:00 (PDT)
No way do you belong there in heaven .We need and want  you here  with us. Your forever Love, Gram
Gram <Maxineatnipomo@aol.com>
USA - Wednesday, June, 2, 2005 at 23:0:00 (PDT)
Happy Birthday Matt!!!   You cross my mind daily and I keep my memories of you close to my heart.  Miss you more with each passing day.  Happy B-day!!!   Love Cassidy
Cassidy <Cassidykw@aol.com>
USA - Wednesday, May, 11, 2005 at 23:0:00 (PDT)
Happy Birthday Matt!  I love and miss you more each day.  You'll always be in my heart and my dreams.  Your girl, Sally "Jo"
Sally Briscoe <callygirl5@yahoo.com>
USA - Wednesday, May, 11, 2005 at 12:02:59 (PDT)
Matthew, I wish I could say that we are all doing well. It just seems much more permanent now. I guess you really aren't going to walk through the front door again? Sometimes, when Chris and Andrew walk in the door with their heads down, I think it is you. My heart stops for a second. They look like you and will carry your spirit on. You are greatly missed and loved. "No Regrets!" Mom
Jancie Grover <janciegrover@sbcglobal.net>
Reddindc, ca USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 at 20:02:59 (PDT)
Matt, You continue to cross my mind constantly. And even still I cannot believe that I will never share another laugh or hug with you. Give my brother a huge hug for me; between the two of you I know all of us down here are in good hands. Life is not the same with out you guys here. Missing you more everyday. Love Jenna
Jenna Jeantet <jen15j@aol.com>
San Luis Obispo, ca USA - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 at 18:40:55 (PDT)
Matt, it is so hard to think that this time last year was the last time I heard your sweet voice. Everyday I miss your big bear hugs and your silly little duck dance more and more. I can't believe you wont ever tackle me to the ground or make me pull your finger ever again. Even now when I think of you, you manage to make me smile. At night when I can't sleep I close my eyes and I can hear you singing me to sleep, just like you used to. I know you are still with us, and you will always be in my heart. Keep a watch over everyone these next few days...and to the farm boys and girls and the Grovers.. I keep you all in my prayers. Loving you always...Sally
Sally Briscoe <Callygirl5@yahoo.com>
Irvine, CA USA - Saturday, April 02, 2005 at 18:44:44 (PST)
Matt, I remember around this time last year hanging out at The Farm with everyone just having a good time. I never would have thought it would be one of the last times we would all get the chance to hang out. We all miss you so much. My funny memory of Matt is... One night we were all at a party & decided to leave & go back to the Farm. I was the only one who was sober so Matt and three other of the guys & Katie all decided to cram into my Mustang with this huge Ice Chest. I never thought it was going to fit but Matt kept trying and finally got it in there somehow. So I had 3 guys in my back seat with a huge ice chest on there laps and 2 people sitting in the passenger seat. We all sang at the top of our lungs the whole way back to the farm, that's just one of the many memories I have of Matt that makes me laugh. Thanks Kristen, the idea of having everyone post a funny memory of Matt was a great idea im sure there will be some great ones. Thinking of you all the time. Love Cassidy
Cassidy Williams <cassidykw@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Friday, March 25, 2005 at 09:04:17 (PST)
What's up Matt? St. Patty's day rolled through again and I remembered I was back in Redding this time last year. Those three girls from out of state were visiting too and we were having a lot of good times at the FARM. I remembered that this was the last time I saw you alive. It's so hard to come home and not have things be like they always were. I miss you bro. Everybody please be safe this spring break.
Austin
SD, CA USA - Sunday, March 20, 2005 at 13:05:20 (PST)
Last night was st. Patricks and rachel and I had been talking about how we all missed hanging out with the boys, and how much fun all of you guys were. Then we walked in to logan's and saw the boys. It also reminded me of the time you told me Greg was my cousin and I didn't believe you because my family is way too large. Thanks, Greg's a good cousin. It was great, seeing them was just a friendly reminder of how great you were. Thanks for everything that you do. You truly are missed! Watchover everyone the next month is going to be hard. love, amy
Amy Corella
USA - Friday, March 18, 2005 at 11:52:58 (PST)
Matt Just like Rachel I've been thinking about the good ol' days where everything was much easier and not so confusing. I miss going to the farm and getting in tooth paste fights, and stealing your jeep. I still think that one day I'm going to walk out to my truck and see it on cynder blocks, if it ever happens I'll know you had a hand in it. I miss you Matt. Tell Tony Hi for me. Keep an eye on everyone.
Amy Corella
USA - Friday, March 11, 2005 at 10:49:01 (PST)
Lately I’ve been thinking about how life used to be. Sometimes things get so crazy and all I want to do by the end of the day is find you, eat the old tub of ice cream, watch a movie, and just take a breather. I miss you so much, Matt, and it’s been harder than every these past few weeks. -rach
Rachel
Redding, CA USA - Tuesday, March 08, 2005 at 09:20:17 (PST)
Matt, Although I didn't really get a chance to meet you, I felt as though I knew you through Rachel. I often find you on my mind as it comes close to a year that God took you from this earth. I think of you and your family often. Matt I'm so sorry I missed the chance to get to know you better. susan
susan apple <apple@c-zone.net>
redding, ca USA - Monday, March 07, 2005 at 19:32:45 (PST)
There are moments in our lives when we miss Matthew so much we want to pick him from our dreams and hug him for real. If only we could.
Matthew's adoring Grandmother
USA - Monday, February 28, 2005 at 20:42:07 (PST)
Hi Matt - Wanted to write to you & say it was nice to meet you & the few times we had FF training together. You were always so funny & made me laugh, I think about those moments sometimes & smile . You are a great friend to allot lives you have touched & many people miss you so much. We are very lucky to have this web page here to come & talk to you. Thanks! Talk to you later. Love You, Shannon :)
Shannon Evert <r_evert@msn.com>
Ono, CA USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 21:51:56 (PST)
Matt- Today i noticed all the things Jeremy has been going through without you here with him. I lost a friend today, who comitted suicied and there are no words to explain how you feel. Now i know the things Jeremy has been going through. You have been such a good friend to jeremy and hope things have been good. Thinking about you Savanna
Savanna Huntsman <Savi_poo@yahoo.com>
redding, ca USA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 at 22:47:10 (PST)
Matt- Today i realized what jeremy has been going through since you have been gone. I had a friend comitte suicide today, and i have never been so lost and theres no words to explain how you feel. I know how much jeremy misses you and you were a great guy. Thinking of you
Savanna Huntsman <Savi_poo@yahoo.com>
redding, ca USA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 at 22:42:07 (PST)
Matt-- It is now January 27 2005, I was just writing because you have been on my mind a lot lately, I really miss hanging out with you, It is as if everybody is moving away to pursue there dreams and the core of friends are getting smaller, Though we are all still close, you can see everybody fading away, Sucks but i guess it is part of growing up, im sure it will all work out, I'm just asking you to do your best in keeping us all together, like you did when you were here, When times were tough you were one that i could always talk to, i really miss that, hope you are having fun, Misss you Jeremy Huntsman
Jeremy Huntsman <Jerm2424@Yahoo.com>
Redding, CA USA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 at 22:25:28 (PST)
Matt-I can't believe we're already into a new year, but I especially can't believe how long it's been since you've been gone...it still feels like it was just yesterday. Your dad and becky came over for my dad and connie's party before christmas-they had a good time! I wish you could have been there. I miss your face, your voice, your laugh...just everything so much. I wish you could be here for my birthday at the end of this month. I still have that dried up bouqet you gave me last year-I'll keep it forever! Keep watching over all of us and tell Tony what's up! :) Missing you all the time- Rach
Rachel
Redding, CA USA - Thursday, January 13, 2005 at 16:59:05 (PST)
"The guardian angels of life sometimes fly so high as to beyond out sight, but they are always looking down on us." I saw this quote and it really comforted me, I wanted to share it with everyone that loved Matt.
Cassidy Williams <Cassidykw@aol.com>
Redding , CA USA - Saturday, January 01, 2005 at 22:26:48 (PST)
Matt~ It's so hard not being able to hear your voice over the phone, or see your smiling face. I remember it was around this time, we were making plans for me to fly to CA to come see you. I will cherish that trip forever. It's Christmas Eve and all of our family and friends are talking about our childhood days. Of corse, you and your brothers came up. You were part of so many's lives, and still are today. Mark,Jancie,Andrew, and Chris...were thinking of you as always. Love, Kristin and the O'Reilly family
Kristin O'Reilly <ohreally77@msn.com>
Post Falls, Id USA - Friday, December 24, 2004 at 21:21:37 (PST)
Matt, it's that time again and we are all starting to plan our annual holiday party. The holidays just aren't the same with you not here with us. You are in our hearts and I know that you are with us always. To the Grover family my thoughts and prayers are with you all! We love you Matt and miss you more with every passing day.
Danielle <Dyella0123@hotmail.com>
san diego, ca USA - Saturday, December 18, 2004 at 00:13:28 (PST)
A season so silent...so peaceful..so beautiful..so sad without your presence.
Grandmother
USA - Monday, December 13, 2004 at 20:52:51 (PST)
Matt, I can't believe it’s almost been eight months since you were taken away from us. It’s been too long since we've heard your laugh or scene your smile. As each day goes by it gets harder because that’s one more day without you. Matt you’re in my thoughts every day and the memories I have of you will never fade. I am so thankful that we became friends over the last 7 years, all the high school memories make me smile, and all the crazy parties at the Farm they were so much fun. Were all missing you like crazy, wishing you were here every day. Cassidy
Cassidy Williams <cassidykw@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Sunday, November 28, 2004 at 15:10:54 (PST)
God Bless Matt's family and friends, he was so young like my daughter Courtney, May God Speed. Our fire fighters are a special breed, and they have such great hearts our heros.
Donna Starks Pasley <zenaisis@hotmail.com>
weed, ca USA - Friday, November 19, 2004 at 14:21:26 (PST)
Dearest Matt,
Patti <poreilly@adelphia.net>
Post Falls, ID USA - Monday, November 15, 2004 at 09:16:06 (PST)
Today was your Mom,s birthday,how sad was that not hearing from you. All she has ever wanted was to hear you wishing her a happy day.
Grandmother <Maxine at Nipomo>
USA - Wednesday, October 13, 2004 at 20:16:38 (PDT)
Oh "Matthew", you have been on my mind constantly! I got my first post college job offer, surprisingly enough in the same little town we used to go to all the time for our coastal getaways. It was less then a year ago that we were there together and being there this time felt so wrong without you. I don't how many times we walked along that water's edge and laughed and how warm it always made my heart feel. This time I felt a chill that ran deep in my soul. We all miss you soo much and I hear that it is supposed to get easier with every passing day, but so far it hasn't. Continue to watch over all those who loved you. We are all trying to be strong, but help us along the way...you are truly the best angel of them all.... To the family, the farm girls and boys; I think and pray for you all. I miss you... Love, Sally
Sally Briscoe <Callygirl5@yahoo.com>
Irvine, CA USA - Sunday, October 10, 2004 at 21:44:12 (PDT)
Matt, we were at the beach the other day and walked through the pier where you and Jeremy pulled the star fish off of the wood and then left sea shells in my car ( which broke and got everywhere). I couldn't help but smile. That week was so much fun. The races especially will never be forgotten by any of us. We all love you so much and miss you more than you will ever know. Keep us safe and watch over us! To all of Matt's family, Kristen, Sally, the girls and my boys stay strong and keep Matt close.
Danielle Jackson <dyella0123@hotmail.com>
san diego, ca USA - Sunday, October 10, 2004 at 14:34:28 (PDT)
Matt~Months and months have gone by and I am finally getting myself to writing. I just never knew what to say. Every night before I go to bed I thank God for the gift of having you in my life for the short time that you were. I also know that you are watching over all of us and taking care of us. Every time I see a fire, I tell myself that you are out there helping to fight it. Although I know you are still with me, I miss you like crazy and it is still so hard to believe that you are not physically here. Love you! ~Katie
Katie Payne <kpshorty136@yahoo.com>
Chico, CA USA - Saturday, October 09, 2004 at 19:17:36 (PDT)
Thank you Jeremy possible Matthew's best of all best friends.Yes it has been a most difficult six months with no light at the end of the tunnel. Life goes on as it must even though life for thoes of us who knew and loved him, to know him was to love him, life will never be the same until we are reunited. Whatever was God thinking? Love, Grandmother
Maxine Thompson <maxine at nipomo@aol.com>
USA - Wednesday, October 06, 2004 at 21:32:50 (PDT)
Thank you Jeremy possible Matthew's best friend of all friends. Yes it has been a most difficult six months with no light at the end of the tunnel. Life will go on as it must. Thoes of us blessed by his presents look forward to our reunion. Love, Grandmother
Maxine Thompson <maxine at nipomo@.com>
USA - Wednesday, October 06, 2004 at 21:02:32 (PDT)
Matt--It was six long months yesterday, This summer was not nearly as fun as it could have been, The drives home from the fire station are never the same, i could remember racing home to go hook up the boat, and get out to the lake, I just want to let you know that we have and never will forget you, you name comes up daily amoung are friends, it just kills me that you were not here this summer, It has been so long since i have seen you, it hurts. Hope you are having fun!! Jeremy
Jeremy <jerm2424@yahoo.com>
Redding, CA USA - Tuesday, October 05, 2004 at 12:18:22 (PDT)
Hello.. I was just running across some of the list, and saw the word "firefighter".. It immediately caught my attention, considering.. I'm one as well. It's a tough job. And for the ones who were dedicated and commited to it... I admire greatly. Such as Matt. He sounds like a real hero, and I'm sure you all miss him deeply.. But keep in mind.. He's safe now. In the past 4 years, I've had to deal with 8 different deaths. It's not very exciting, considering, 6 of them were in the past 2 years. (Ashley Nicole Willis has a condolence page on here too... if you'd like to view it.) But it just breaks my heart. For someone like Matt, so loved, and so blessed, to be taken so soon. I wish you all the best. I can tell just by reading your posts that he was greatly loved. Nothing loved is ever lost... * -Much Love, Nikol Vinci, Firefighter -Maryland
Nikol Vinci <ndv_jmc_4204@hotmail.com>
Cumberland, MD USA - Sunday, September 26, 2004 at 13:10:21 (PDT)
Matt, So many times I sit here and read the messages your family and friends leave you; I feel as though I know you through these words of love. I did not get the chance to meet you, although I heard we stood close to eachother at Toni's funeral. I am so sorry we did not take time to meet. I was too embarrased from crying so much. I want to say thank you for being who you are and giving so much of yourself to those who were lucky enough to know you. I often think of you and the gift you brought my daughter Rachel. I can never repay you for what you have given her. All I can say is that I too miss you and what you brought to each and every person you encountered.
susan apple <apple@c-zone>
redding, ca USA - Sunday, September 26, 2004 at 09:59:14 (PDT)
Matt, I think I have tried to put my thoughts of you down 20 times the last few months. Your not being here as left an unfillable hole in all of our lives, but a part of you lives on in all of us. You found a way make all of us be better for having known you. Jeremy, Jake, Lucas & Andrew have carried on, bouyed on by the courage that you give them every day. I day doesn't go by that I don't remember your courage, dedication & heart. It will be along time before another so young can touch so many, young or old so deeply , and still do. Company 53 will always keep you in our hearts & minds. I know it goes without saying that I am proud of how you lived you life, as short as it may have been. Kevin Poer
Kevin Poer <kmlpoer@awwwsome.com>
Redding, c USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 at 15:28:01 (PDT)
Matt Everyday I ask for advice, Thank you for looking out for all of us, I feel much with you looking over me!
Jamie Carlson
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 at 13:26:06 (PDT)
Matt, you're still the first thing on my mind when I wake up, and I think about you all throughout the day. I miss you so much! It seems like the days are getting harder with time because every day that goes by is just another day without you. I have the picture you framed for my birthday sitting next to by bed, and your dad and Becky made some very nice tiles with your pictures on them; one is hanging on the wall. You are missed and loved so much. Jancie, Mark, Becky, the boys, Kristin in Idaho, and everyone at the farm-take care of yourselves and know that Matt is always hanging around, making sure everything is okay.
Rachel <rachie107@hotmail.com>
Redding, CA USA - Tuesday, September 07, 2004 at 16:15:50 (PDT)
Matt, Gosh I miss hanging out with you so much it was always a blast with you around, you were always so full of energy. There still hasn't been a day go by that I haven't remembered the memories, there what keep all of us going. Matt you were truly one of a kind and I miss you like crazy, wishing you were here everyday. Jancie, Mark, Andrew, and Chris. Matt will be forever watching over you. Cassidy
Cassidy Williams <cassidykw@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Friday, August 27, 2004 at 23:28:16 (PDT)
Matt, Gosh I miss hanging out with you so much it was always a blast with you around, you were always so full of energy. There still hasn't been a day go by that I haven't remembered the memories, there what keep all of us going. Matt you were truly one of a kind and I miss you like crazy, wishing you were here everyday. Jancie, Mark, Andrew, and Chris. Matt will be forever watching over you. Love Cassidy
Cassidy Williams <cassidykw@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Friday, August 27, 2004 at 23:24:32 (PDT)
Oh Matt, coming home this summer wasn't the same without you here, but you're always in my thoughts. Every time we hang out at the farm, every time we laugh, everytime we talk about our memories, you will always be there- In our hearts and in our thoughts. If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have met some of the best friends I have today, and I'll be forever grateful. Pal, I'll miss you forever Love Heather
Heather <Heather.Georgianna@pepperdine.edu>
Malibu, CA USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 at 12:53:34 (PDT)
Matthew...I still look for you on every CDF engine that goes by! You would have loved this season. The days are getting harder without you. Too much time has gone by since we've seen your smile. We will never get over you! I love you. XXOO Mom
Jancie <Grovers5@aol.com>
Redding, Ca. USA - Sunday, August 22, 2004 at 20:30:10 (PDT)
Matthew Robert..... not a day goes by that I dont remember you. You inspired me, and gave me strength and courage. Even when we hit rough patches in the road, you were always strong and reassured me that you would always be there, and I know you still are. As months pass I miss our weekly phone calls, because you always seem to know exactly what to say to lift my spirits. Thank you Matt for blessing my life the way that you have, and for showing me what compassion really means. You brightened everyone's life and touched more hearts then most can aspire to. I live everyday with your memory in my heart and I know I will love you forever..... To Jancie, Mark, Andrew, Chris, and all of the family, including the farm boys and girls... my prayers are with you. Keep faith and remember that he is always with you and there for you.
Sally Briscoe <Callygirl5@yahoo.com>
Irvine, CA USA - Friday, August 20, 2004 at 13:52:47 (PDT)
am here my brother
emaka <emaka1@yahoo.com>
tg - Thursday, August 12, 2004 at 09:08:30 (PDT)
Matt~ I just woke up and have you in my mind. I was dreaming of you, and it was like it was for real. I miss everything about you. I miss hearing your voice over the phone and hearing all your crazy stories of you and the boys. You always had me laughing. I miss the sound of your laugh. I still carry the sound of your laugh close to me and whenever I think of it, it makes me smile. I know your probably up there smiling along with me. Grover family~always thinking of all of you. Andrew and Chris I hope you two are stayin strong and carrying on Matt's traditions.
Kristin <ohreally77@msn.com>
Post Falls, Id USA - Wednesday, August 11, 2004 at 19:12:37 (PDT)
Matt--it just is not the same around Redding, There still is not a day that goes buy that you do not go through my head, It was really hard last week because i went out of county with your fire engine, to Siskiyou, and all i could think about was how you should be on that engine making everybody laugh. The summer is just not the same, What i would do to hang out with you one more day. We all really miss you and you will always be with us To Grammy, Jancie, Mark the two brothers, Kristen in Idaho, Stay Strong It seems as theses are some of the hardest days.
Jeremy Huntsman <Jerm2424@yahoo.com>
Redding, CA USA - Tuesday, August 03, 2004 at 10:45:30 (PDT)
Matt, we had some great times during snowboarding season, chaperoning was never dull with you around! You were always the guy I thought Jenna should be dating. She says you were the first guy friend of her's that I ever liked. Lot's of great memories which will never be forgotten. You are deeply missed by so many. Jancie, Mark, Andrew and Chris - we're always here for you. Remember Tony and Matt are together watching over us and we couldn't ask for two better angels.
Michael Jeantet Simpson <michaelsimpson@charter.net>
Redding, CA USA - Thursday, July 29, 2004 at 21:58:25 (PDT)
My love child I dream of you every night your first smile your first step, how proud you were being potty trained before you were two, your first pair of short paints you tried to pull them down. I see you playing in the surf at our beach you loved so much. I see you marching off to your first day of school ready to take on the world we could not stop crying. Then I awake and it is three thirty. The rest of the night is spent reliving every moment of your full but all too short life. The pain will never leave until we are together again and I can huge you forever. Love, Your adoring Grandmother
Grandmother
USA - Tuesday, July 13, 2004 at 21:46:11 (PDT)
Matt, summer just isn't the same without you.
Big O
- Wednesday, July 07, 2004 at 02:18:06 (PDT)
Not a day goes by without thinking of you or remembering a memory shared with you Matt. I'm reminded of you through every beautiful thing God put here on this earth. That's what lets me know your living on. Matt, your inspiration is what gets me through each day. I will cherish every single memory I have of you and will always have a vivid picture of your glowing, smiling face. We will all be together someday, but until then I know you will continue to live on through everyone who knew you. Miss you like crazy! Love you forever Matt Mark,Jancie,Andrew,Chris, and the "Farm gang" Thinking of you guys all the time. Continue to be strong. Matt is always watching over us.
Kristin O'Reilly <ohreally77@msn.com>
Post Falls, Id USA - Wednesday, June 30, 2004 at 18:14:38 (PDT)
Not a day goes by without thinking of you or remembering a memory shared with you Matt. I'm reminded of you through every beautiful thing God put here on this earth. That's what lets me know your living on. Matt, your inspiration is what gets me through each day. I will cherish every single memory I have of you and will always have a vivid picture of your glowing, smiling face. We will all be together someday, but until then I know you will continue to live on through everyone who knew you. Miss you like crazy! Love you forever Matt Mark,Jancie,Andrew,Chris, and the "Farm gang" Thinking of you guys all the time. Continue to be strong. Matt is always watching over us.
Kristin O'Reilly <ohreally77@msn.com>
Post Falls, Id USA - Wednesday, June 30, 2004 at 18:13:35 (PDT)
I heard a song tonight that reminded me of you Matt, so I gave your mom a call. She was there in Redding telling me of the beautiful sunset that you were a part of. I was here in Idaho admiring the same sunset. Continue to be an inspiration to all those that you loved and who will forever need your guidance in the good times & bad. Your memory will live on forever.
Patti <poreilly@adelphia.net>
Post Falls, ID USA - Tuesday, June 29, 2004 at 22:12:25 (PDT)
"Our hearts still ache in sadness, and secret tears still flow, what it meant to lose you no one will ever know".
Cassidy Williams <cassidykw@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Saturday, June 26, 2004 at 12:03:43 (PDT)
Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Ann
USA - Monday, June 21, 2004 at 11:05:39 (PDT)
"Death leaves sorrow nobody can heal, love leaves memories nobody can steal." I will treasure all the memories I have of Matt. They make me laugh and they make me cry. From the ski and snowboard team, hanging out at school games, senior ditch day at Matts house when him and kyle threw me in the pool with all my clothes on, hanging out at the farm and so many more. Matt was the greatest friend any of us could have asked for he was always there for everyone no matter what. Matt, you will always be in my heart. Love you
Cassidy Williams <cassidykw@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Sunday, June 06, 2004 at 21:17:50 (PDT)
I want to thank Jeremy, Jake, Kyle, Rambo, Nick, Rachel, Amy, and all who loved Matt, and "The Farm." Your continued calls, hugs, and support is carrying us through. And, Matt is smiling! We love you all. Jancie, Andrew, and Chris
Jancie Grover <Grovers5@aol.com>
Redding, Ca USA - Tuesday, June 01, 2004 at 23:16:36 (PDT)
Good night sweet Prince
Grammy
USA - Wednesday, May 26, 2004 at 21:48:27 (PDT)
We were never privileged to meet Matt, but he would have had to be one of the chosen few. A grandson of Gary and Maxine Thompson could not be anything less. So young and so full of life...Godspeed and God Bless. Missy & Dino
Dean & Missy Werley <Fighterjock75@aol.com>
Wimberley, TX USA - Monday, May 24, 2004 at 08:51:33 (PDT)
I spent the best years of my life with Matt and his brothers riding BMX bikes during high school. Matt was a neighbor of mine in Redding. I just heard the sad news today and I hope the best for his Mom and Dad and Brothers.
mike Pregler <juxy88@yahoo.com>
Concord, ca USA - Saturday, May 22, 2004 at 20:45:44 (PDT)
We never met Matt but saw his picture every year from his grandparents Christmas cards. They paint a warm and very loving picture of an exceptionl young man. Many many people will miss him. We are so sorry for their loss and we send our deepest sympathy to all his family.
Anne and Ken Fleenor <anneken@earthlink.n>
Universal City, , TX USA - Friday, May 21, 2004 at 11:46:11 (PDT)
We knew Matt thru his grandmother Maxine and his grandfather Gary's eyes. In reading the condolences, it is evident their evaluation was accurate. It is a sad loss to all...especially the family for whom we send our deepest sympathies.
the Currans <thecurrans@aol.com>
San Clemente, CA USA - Thursday, May 20, 2004 at 22:08:57 (PDT)
It takes a minute to find a special person , an hour to appreciate them , a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.
Grammy
USA - Friday, May 14, 2004 at 21:21:18 (PDT)
Happy 21st Birthday, Matt ... in honor of your birthday and for all the lives you have touched, a star has been named for you. It is located inside the cup of the Big Dipper constellation, Ursa Major. We can think of you each night when we look at the stars. We all miss you! The Caslava, Caras and Johnson/Komzelman families
The Caslava Family <caslava@sbcglobal.net>
San Marcos, CA USA - Wednesday, May 12, 2004 at 16:07:50 (PDT)
Twenty one years ago today was the happiest day of our lives. Matthew our first grandchild was born. Giving us nothing but joy for the next twenty years.He so looked forward to being twenty-one. Today at noon some thirty of his best friends held a BBQ luncheon at his final resting place All were wearing Matthew tee-shirts, which they were selling to raise maney to finish Matthews back yard and Koe pond. Matthew has the best friends in the entire world. That was Matthew, if you were not the best you could be when he meet you he would show you the way.
Grandmother
USA - Tuesday, May 11, 2004 at 21:14:32 (PDT)
What's up Matt, I can't tell you how much I miss calling over to the farm and saying that to you. Dad and I brought the jeep over to his house and it brought back so many good thoughts. Everyone is going to miss you and no one will forget you. I think I am one of the most luckiest kids to be able to say that you were my big brother. I can't say how much i will miss you. Matt watch out for all of us and one day will all be together again. Happy 21st birthday tuesday love always, chris
Chris Grover (Mini Matt)
Redding , CA USA - Sunday, May 09, 2004 at 21:19:41 (PDT)
Mother's Day with out Matthew, the firs't of many first.In memory of ther brother Andrey and Christopher gave there Mom a beautiful emerald ring with Matt's name and dates engraved on each side. Everyone cried.
Grandmother
USA - Sunday, May 09, 2004 at 19:49:31 (PDT)
Matt - I still can't believe you're gone. It won't be the same without you. You were a great friend and a great person, so full of life. Memories of you give me the inspiration to keep going everyday. Thank you to CDF for helping put on a beautiful funeral, and thank you to everyone who came. To Jancie, Mark, Andrew, & Chris, Matt was truly special and will live on forever through us and our memories. I miss you Matt.
Austin Palin <BigOtheOG@netscape.net>
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, May 07, 2004 at 00:10:14 (PDT)
We were very fortunate to have the opportunity to know Matt and all the Grovers for almost 20 years. Matt, it's been a month and we all still miss you greatly. You were the man we want all of our sons to become - motivated, helpful, positive and driven are all attributes that describe Matt. He touched so many lives in such a positive way. You are in our thoughts daily as well as your family.
The Caslava Family
San Marcos, Caslava USA - Monday, May 03, 2004 at 21:37:54 (PDT)
Day 25 Matthew has entered our eternal home above-the heavenly gate has opened wide to welcome him. We cannot help the tears that fall-our hearts need time to grieve when earthly life has ended and a loved one has to leave.Matthew waits to welcome us in joy with no more tears past the gate. Your forever love, Grandmother
Grandmother <Maxine atnipomo@aol.com>
USA - Wednesday, April 28, 2004 at 21:20:12 (PDT)
Jancie, I was so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. From reading the condolences, it sounds as though Matt had a tremendous impact on many lives. Wishing you much comfort, Julie
Julie Bright <jbright@saddleback.edu>
San Clemente, CA USA - Monday, April 26, 2004 at 18:41:32 (PDT)
Matt~ Although I only knew you a few years, those years were full of good times. All the memories I have of you are good memories that bring laughter and a smile to my face. You were a great person and I appreciate all you did. Most of all you brought Rachel back to us, you were able to bring the Rachel we loved back and I just wanted to thank you for that because no one else was able to. Jancie, Mark, Andrew, and Chris now Matt is watching over you and giving his love from above. Rest in Peace Matt you deserve it.
Amy Corella <Tacomalover@msn.com>
Redding, Ca USA - Monday, April 26, 2004 at 12:09:19 (PDT)
matt, i wish i had gotten to meet you, i remember getting your families christmas card every december and wondering who that boy was. I could tell by your smile and the faces around you that you were an amazing person and that you affected many lives, and i know you are up in heaven right now watching over your family. Mom, and dad & i all wish your family the best. They are in our thoughts and prayers as are you. we all miss you! Love alwasy, your cousin brittany.
Brittany Cronin <dance_queen55@hotmail.com>
presque isle, me USA - Monday, April 26, 2004 at 09:44:09 (PDT)
We did not have the opportunity of knowing Matt but feel it is our loss based upon the comments of those that did. Knowing Maxine and Gary over many years and Jancey as a little girl' only an outstanding young man could have been the son and grandson of such wonderful people . We hurt for the pain that they are going through, but know that GOD must have had a reason in taking Matt at such a young age.Bless you all. Jack and Ginny Snyder
Jack and Ginny Snyder <snyderfwb@cox.net>
Shalimar, FL USA - Monday, April 26, 2004 at 08:22:20 (PDT)
Every day I spent with Matt, I glowed. He put a smile on my face that my friends and family hadn't seen for a long time, and I thank him so much for that. I miss him every minute that goes by in every day that he has been gone. There will never be another guy like him-he was so special to everyone. To Jancie, Mark and the family-stay strong-we are all here for you.
Rachel Apple <rachie107@hotmail.com>
Redding, CA USA - Sunday, April 25, 2004 at 00:50:19 (PDT)
Thank you for getting us through day 20 Matthew. We feel your presents. Jacque said it as it is. Matthew's touching so many hearts had to be just the start of his work. His mission was more than here on earth .Thank you Jacque.
Grammy <maxine at nipomo@aol.com>
USA - Friday, April 23, 2004 at 21:27:35 (PDT)
Jancie and family: Jan and I are acutely familiar with the sorrow and grief associated with losing a child. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Hang in there. Ray and Jan BRIGHT.
Ray and Jan BRIGHT <rayjan@cox.net>
San Clemente, CA USA - Friday, April 23, 2004 at 16:22:28 (PDT)
MATT- I knew you as a infant thru Grammy Max and all the years to follow - you always had a smile on you face and a sparkel in your eye--you must have known your mission was much more involved than just here on earth...Touching so many hearts had to be just the start of your work...Watch over all your loved ones as they need your strength.
Jacque Longsworth <Jacbequick@frontiernet.net>
Lake Almanor, CA USA - Thursday, April 22, 2004 at 20:20:46 (PDT)
Matthew we want to honor you for the boy you were and the man you became. You grew into that fine young man because of the love and support of a wonderful Father, Mother, brothers and extended family. Rest in peace and we will celebrate your life forever more.
Rick & Sally Williams <sallyw@icehouse.net>
Reardan, WA USA - Wednesday, April 21, 2004 at 06:50:42 (PDT)
Dear Matt, Your Grandmother and I have been friends since your Mom was a toddler. Over these 40-something years we have stayed connected - yet seeing each other rarely. So I know you can receive this message and connect to the love from your Grandparents that they will hold forever in their hearts. Joan
Joan <joandow@maine.rr.com>
Portland, ME USA - Wednesday, April 21, 2004 at 06:13:32 (PDT)
Matt, Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. That fateful day will be etched in my memory forever, along with the many memories that we made the first six months of The Farm. You will live on through all of us. I don't know if the pain will ever fade or subside. I do know that all of us will be together again someday. You have touched many lives including mine. It gives me comfort to know that should my time come there is a friend waiting for me on the other side. Your always in our hearts. "No Regrets" To Mark, Jancie, Andrew, and Chris I wish you the best, always know that Matt is watching over you.
Chris Moore <CMoore0324@aol.com>
Redding, Ca USA - Tuesday, April 20, 2004 at 21:47:09 (PDT)
Matt we have so many memories. From the snowboard team and ROP in highschool, to volunteering at Centerville and working with you at Fawnlodge and my station; You will be missed tremendously. You had your future so well planned out, it was going to be so rich. We all have a huge void now that you are gone. You had such a love for life and such a great attitude, it was aways awesome to be around you. I still cannot believe you are gone. You will be missed so much.
Nick Wallingford <Rider581@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Monday, April 19, 2004 at 20:59:52 (PDT)
Matt we have so many memories. From the snowboard team and ROP in highschool, to volunteering at Centerville and working with you at Fawnlodge and my station; You will be missed tremendously. You had your future so well planned out, it was going to be so rich. We all have a huge void now that you are gone. You had such a love for life and such a great attitude, it was aways awesome to be around you. I still cannot believe you are gone. You will be missed so much.
Nick Wallingford <Rider581@aol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Monday, April 19, 2004 at 20:59:42 (PDT)
Matthew was like a song-every note rare and precious. We were blessed to have heard the song. There will always be a hole in our hearts but God willing we will learn to live with it in time.
Grandmother <maxine at nipomo @aol.com>
USA - Monday, April 19, 2004 at 20:32:36 (PDT)
Matt will be greatly missed by all. I can remember him as a child and how mature and intelligent he was. He was a fine young man to go places in life and gave a lot towards others. He lived here in San Marcos on our street and there were times I babysat him. He was very responsible and took care of his baby brother, Chris, so well. I am so sorry this has happened and he could not be here longer because I know he would have made many future impacts on this society. Our heart and prayers goes out to the Grover family, Mark, Jancie, Andrew and Chris.
Bochinski,: Frank, Karen David and Stephen <karenbochinski@cox.net>
San Marcos, CA USA - Monday, April 19, 2004 at 16:27:18 (PDT)
I am Matthew's mother and would like to give thanks to all who knew and loved Matt. He was one of a kind and had genuine love for you all. Know that each of you had a special spot in his heart & your friendship meant the world to him. His family is at peace. Live your lives to the fullest and enjoy his memory! Jancie, Mark, Andrew, and Chris
Jancie Grover <Grovers5@aol.com>
Redding, Cal USA - Monday, April 19, 2004 at 14:30:12 (PDT)
Losing an awsome friend sucks... bad. I now come home to a quiet house and it gives me such an empty feeling inside but when I think off all the good times we've had over the years I can't help but smile. Wow the things Matt would do just to make sure we had a good time, he will never be forgotton and will live on in our hearts forever. For Mark, Jancy, Andrew, Chris and the rest of the fam; we will all get through this together. Stay strong and remember the good times.
Jake Troncale <jakedasnke@hotmail.com>
redding, ca USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 at 22:45:36 (PDT)
-Matt- There isn't five minutes that go by that i do not think about you, We now have a blown up picture of you in the house, it makes me feel like you are there. I miss hanging out with you so much, words cannot express how empty i feel inside. I still ask myself why and cannot come up with an awnser. Your were a great friend, Roomate, and firefighter. Miss you Jeremy Huntsman
Jeremy Huntsman <Jerm2424@yahoo.com>
Redding, CA USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 at 22:33:29 (PDT)
Matt, I know you are reading this so; we will always remember you and never forget the times we have had. You are my insperation and motivation to keep trying. To your family I feel the most sympathy. In loving mameory. love you.
Devin Funderburg <Dfmxrider26>
San Diego, ca USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 at 22:22:50 (PDT)
Matt I wish that I could have done more for you. I miss you so much. You will forever be in my heart. I will think of you every day that I am able to breath. You have change my life forever. For those who never got the chance to meet Matt. He was a amazing person that will never forget. I miss your words matt. Love you forever.
Nick Mifsud
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 at 22:09:48 (PDT)
May you rest in peace.
Roy Billings FAE/SHU <bassnducks@hotmail.com>
Redding, Ca USA - Friday, April 09, 2004 at 23:28:18 (PDT)
My prayers are with Matt's family and many friends. Hard-working and dedicated, he also had a zest for life. His smile would light up a room. He will remain in our thoughts and hearts forever.
Dotti Cary <dotti.cary@fire.ca.gov>
Redding, CA USA - Friday, April 09, 2004 at 09:01:39 (PDT)
Our condolences to Matt's family and friends. ...Too young, too soon.
Chris and Misty <caf133244ataol.com>
Redding, CA USA - Friday, April 09, 2004 at 07:42:21 (PDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with Matt's family and his CDF Brothers and Sisters. May his memory live with and in all of you.
Annie Vandergoot <Anne.Vandergoot@fire.ca.gov>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Thursday, April 08, 2004 at 20:33:54 (PDT)
I was one of Matt's snowboard race coaches in high school and saw him on a couple of fires. He always had a great attitude and was fun to coach. He will be missed.
Misty Cary <mistycary@yahoo.com>
Redding, CA USA - Thursday, April 08, 2004 at 18:29:38 (PDT)
I never met Matt, but my husband Merrick worked with him at Fawnlodge. I know from Merrick that Matt was well liked, hardworking and a dedicated firefighter. Matt will be remembered by all the people that knew him.
Marie Fields <Marie.Fields@fire.ca.gov>
Redding, CA USA - Thursday, April 08, 2004 at 16:20:54 (PDT)
I hope and pray for the family, the friends and the co-workers that you remember Matt well and honor his memory with your lives. I recently spoke with his brothers and friends and I feel that Matt was truly the best friend and brother anyone could have. He will be missed, however, the memories he has left behind will fortify all of us forever.
Tammy Hay <Tammy.Hay@fire.ca.gov>
Redding, CA USA - Thursday, April 08, 2004 at 14:18:30 (PDT)
My deepest condolences to Matt's family, friends, and co-workers in SHU and SCFD. CDF Fire has lost yet another great member of it's family and he will be missed tremendously. While making this condolence page for Matt, I found it odd that his birthday his the same as my daughters, only she was born in 1978. Well, I only hope that she met Matt at the Gates of Heaven and welcomed him home...I didn't know Matt but from what I have heard from others, his loss will leave a giant hole in all of of our hearts...
Brian Kornegay <oneputt@pacific.net>
Ukiah, CA USA - Thursday, April 08, 2004 at 13:52:20 (PDT)