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Condolences and Reflections for
George E. Wafford, 60
Upper Lake, CA
President, Clearlake Horseman's Association

August 11, 2003

"A good man gone to Heaven way too soon..."
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I would like to express my belated condolences on the loss of your beloved George. I can sympathize with your sorrow, having lost loved ones myself in death. From reading his condolences, I can see that George was very much loved and well respected by his friends and family. It is easy to see that George had a great love for the outdoors as well as for all of God’s animal creation. In spite of all the grief that comes with the death of a loved one, I have found great comfort in the many promises of God, particularly His promise of a resurrection. I would like to share that comforting promise with you. The Bible makes the promise: “Your dead ones will live . . . They will rise up.” And the Bible also says: “The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it.”—[Isaiah 26:19; Psalm 37:29]. Yes, Almighty God has not only the power but also the desire to resurrect persons whom he chooses. Jesus Christ himself said: “Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.”—[John 5:28, 29; Acts 24:15]. You yourself may recall the promise that Jesus made to the man dying beside him when he said “You will be with me in Paradise.” The Bible gives us a beautiful glimpse of what God has in store It speaks of a future paradise, not in Heaven, but right here on earth! This can be seen from these beautiful words by the prophet Isaiah "And the wolf will actually reside for a while with the male lamb, and with the kid the leopard itself will lie down, and the calf and the maned young lion and the well-fed animal all together; and a mere little boy will be leader over them. And the cow and the bear themselves will feed; together their young ones will lie down. And even the lion will eat straw just like the bull. And the sucking child will certainly play upon the hole of the cobra; and upon the light aperture of a poisonous snake will a weaned child actually put his own hand". I think George will be thrilled to be there. These are just a few of the many resurrection accounts found in God's Word. I'm convinced that I'll see George very soon when God's promise of a resurrection becomes a reality. I'd like for you too to be as sure as I am. Although you may not have confidence in the resurrection promise at this time, I invite you to e-mail me if you would like to discuss further God's wonderful resurrection hope. In any event, please accept again my condolences.
Mike Darling <mwdarling@hotmail.com>
Buctouche, New Brunswick Canada - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 at 11:43:25 (PST)

Well Daddy.... Yesterday we took you to your favorite mountain and set you free. I have no doubt that you know where you are going, as these are the same Mountains & Hills that you have rode your entire life. Uncle Tony carried your Milk Can out onto a rock, David and I walked behind him, with Marilyn and Randi & Elsie behind us. The Wind was just perfect, and away you went. Tony did make the comment that you were heavier than he thought, and those Burritos you used to eat must have really stayed with you. I thought there was only going to be a few close family members and friends, but I think there was about 40 people there. I dont think you really ever realized how many peoples lives you have touched, for someone who just didn't give a sh*t what anyone else thought...You sure ended up with a Fan Club! You would have been proud of David, he was late, but for a good reason. Just carring on Family Traditions. I keep thinking that dealing with you being gone is going to be easier, but its not, its getting worse. Im trying to figure where to go from here, and what Im supposed to do, or my purpose in life. What saves me is Randi and Steven. I know that being a Wafford that Im supposed to be tough, but it just hurts too damn much not having you here. I have my Good Days, and then there are days like today, where I would just hide from the world, surround myself with all of your pictures and listen to Johnny Cash and ball my eyes out. I know you told me who to turn to if I ever needed anything, but I think he is having it as rough as I am, and I just don't want to burden anyone. There are things that I will never understand, and you leaving us so soon is one of them. It's just not fair. So I guess I should just stop feeling sorry for myself and be happy that you are in a much better place and not in pain anymore. I hope that you are looking down on us, and that you still know how much you are loved and missed. Hugs, Kisses and Lots of Tears.... Renee
Your Daughter <renee@rhinestonedreams.com>
Clearlake, CA USA - Sunday, October 05, 2003 at 14:07:42 (PDT)

Dear George, I will miss you so much. I am glad you do not have to suffer anymore. Your friendship has been some of the BEST times I have ever had. You came into my life and filled a void that was left by the only other man I ever called my "Best" friend, my father. I guess the thing I will miss the most about you is your Knowledge. I have never known a man that knew more about animals than you. You had so much to teach me and I wish we had more time. I greatly appreciate the things you have taught me. I use them daily. I grieve daily for you, but at the same time I am always reminded of some moment that we shared, ALWAYS ending in laughter and smiles. You had a knack for making people smile. There are so many memories, they are too many to list. There is one more thing I need to say to you. "Simply knowing you, George Wafford,has made Me a better person!" Your Good Friend, Tim Compton I miss you.
Tim & Kathleen Compton
Lakeport, CA USA - Friday, September 05, 2003 at 08:18:59 (PDT)

A Poem By Terry Ike Clanton **COWBOYS LAST REQUEST** Let me tell ya Folks Who have gathered here today That I'm a proud and thankful cowboy Who has just passed away I know it's hard But, Please Don't Cry Fer I'm now ridin' God's Trails High Up in the Sky The Hoss I'm ridin' now Don't Spook, Buck or Kick Fer God stables perfect Horses And I now have my pick Lord, Please forgive me of all my Sins Fer I haven't been perfect But I know that he who believes in You Forever Wins! I have lived a Good Life A Cowboys Dream come True Thank You Lord, Fer I'm now ready to ride into eternity Me, My Horse, and You
~RW~
USA - Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 23:01:52 (PDT)

From all of us here at Michelsen and Witt Large Animal Practice, we send our condolences and sympathy to George's family. He was truly one of a kind. We enjoyed doing work for him and his horses. And we know he is organizing SOMETHING up there in the great beyond! Happy Trails, George!
Roni <bluejayln@pacific.net>
Willits, CA USA - Friday, August 29, 2003 at 08:33:11 (PDT)

George is just such a special cowboy. (note I said "is" because he will always be with us) He taught me a lot and I will always remember his kindness and love of life and a good joke. Laugh, Live, Love that is what life is all about and George knows that.
lynn saunders <lsaunders@fs.fed.us>
greenville, ca USA - Wednesday, August 27, 2003 at 16:33:36 (PDT)

To the family of George Wafford we send our deepest sympathy. Mary Torretto-Frogue and Bill
Mary and Bill Frogue <sicilliangal@aol.com>
Riverside, Ca USA - Friday, August 22, 2003 at 22:42:19 (PDT)

Born a 100 years too late and gone far to soon. Whether you knew George for 5 mintues of fifty years, he left you with something. He was generous with all that he had and knew. One of my observations of George is that he would never allow another person to be embarassed for lack of knowledge or skill. He'd say, "yeah, I used to do it that way too, but here's what I learned from that." George will be greatly missed and my thoughts and prayers are with his family as they work through these times.
Wade McCammond <wade_m@co.lake.ca.us>
Lakeport, CA USA - Thursday, August 21, 2003 at 10:18:59 (PDT)

Your Dad was a great guy and a prankster, I sw him the day before he turned worse and that last words I heard from him, he told Marily to tell Jean he cut down the Oleanders in front so she would not have to worry about watering them. Jean was upset, until Marily assured her that he was teasing. A lot more. stories for the short time Iknew him.
Pat Starke <ladybug01@mchsi.com>
Lakeport, Cal USA - Thursday, August 21, 2003 at 09:28:11 (PDT)

I would like to Thank Brian for doing up this site, its nice to know that I still have some old friends in EMS that are more than willing to help out in anyway they can. I know you, of all people understand how this can help with the healing process. Brian..Thank You from the Bottom of my Heart. Hugs ~Renee~ ******************************************************** This is has been one of the most devistating events in my life. I have been pretty much in a daze the last few days and on Auto Pilot. Its wearing off, and reality is setting in. I dont have my daddy here to ask his advice or to get his support or a hug. I will never understand why he had to go so soon. Myself, Steven and Miss Randi miss you so. Even Elmo your BullDog is laying here at my feet. I dont think he even understands. The only postive thing to come out of this, as there was no words left unsaid between us, and no unfinished business. You had no doubt as to depth of my Love, and I had no doubt as to the depth of yours. I guess I shouldnt be so selfish here, as I know there are many other people out there who feel the same way. You should have seen your Memorial Service, You would have been proud. David and I will be fine, We still have each other. You left us in good hands with some of your friends that you asked to watch out for us. And I hope that you are up there watching out for us, as God Knows, David and I could use a Guardian Angel! Daddy, I dont know what else there is to say....I wish we could have done more for you, It was such a helpless feeling laying there next to you in bed over the last month. I hope you have a good ride to wherever you are going. Save us some Good Horses for when we finally get to meet on those Heavenly Trails. Hugs, Love, Tears and Kisses.... Your Daughter, Renee
Renee <renee@rhinestonedreams.com>
Clearlake, CA USA - Wednesday, August 20, 2003 at 11:46:30 (PDT)

My deepest condolences to George's family and friends. I hope this site may provide just a little comfort in the painful days ahead.
Brian Kornegay <oneputt@pacific.net>
Ukiah, CA USA - Sunday, August 03, 2003 at 18:50:42 (PDT)